Fingering of sex (photos)

They say sex is like pizza: When it’s bad, it’s still good. But we beg to differ, especially when it comes to sex with your hands. For the most part, dry, fast, and furious fingering does not feel pleasant. But wet, built-up, and conscious use of hands on pussy? Oh yeah.

If you’re new to this type of sex, it’s important to choose partners that are understanding and supportive of your hand . Be honest that this is new to you to create an atmosphere of communication and understanding. And no matter how many times you’ve done this, it’s still important to replicate this environment with each new partner (like we said, everyone’s different). That said, it’s also helpful to establish a baseline of fingering skills. So here are nine tips on how to finger someone in a pleasurable manner.

Jordin explains why fingering, or manual stimulation, works better for female arousal than the rushed, checkbox sex many women endure today. The female pleasure and arousal cycle requires slowness, buildup, and emotional tuning; this is not jackhammering toward orgasm.

The Art Of Fingering Like A Pro: A Guide To Please A Woman Sexually With Your Fingers; How To Give Great Oral Sex; Techniques To Stimulate Her Clitoris; Ways To Get Inside Her & Work The G-Spot

Though many STIs are passed through bodily fluids, it still may be possible to pass some STIs through fingering. For example, certain STIs, like HPV and herpes, can be passed by skin-to-skin contact. Additionally, fingering tends to be part of foreplay that ultimately leads to or involves penetrative sex. Bodily fluid could already be on the fingers and spread other STIs. It’s important to consider the risks of STI transmission in all forms of sexual activity.